Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Unearthly Bored

I have Finally caved and started listening to books on tape. Sean mentioned the other day that I had not mentioned my lack of music recently and was pleased with my growth that my loss was apparently just a blip on the radar. I had been trying to keep my verbal complaints to a minimum and keep track of my thoughts and media input on paper, but my innate laziness eventually won out and I stopped writing things down. Partially because I was willing to accept the 33 songs on Jen’s computer that I know / would be willing to listen to and have played them on repeat. I even started playing Donkey Kong with the sound on because that was enough melody to feed my ears with. Chris will also let me borrow her ipod when she’s not using it, as will Penny. And Katie has country, so I listened to it all weekend in Kigali. I had also been keeping track of my dreams for a while, but there were a few nights where either I didn’t remember them, or they were ultimately boring. Recently, they have started to be interesting again, so I’ll probably start writing again. It partially depends on the bedding situation at site – I’d forgotten just quite how small twin beds really are.
Right now, I am listening to “The BFG” because I’ve read it often enough that it’s almost like background music. I now have a whole collection of Roald Dahl books along with the Twilight series, the Ender’s Game and Ender’s Shadow sagas (YES!!!!!) Louis L’Amour short stories (??), Inkdeath series, Thief Lord, and Dragon Rider, and The Black Company Series by Glen Cook (again, ??). [Oh yuck – that’s a terrible voice for the giant.] not that I really have any way to listen to them once I go to site, but I’ll figure it out.

I suppose I ought to continue with last week’s saga. Monday night, Michele and I did not follow directions very carefully and instead of taking a cab to the designated neighborhood, we took a bus to the Peace Corps office which we heard was near the neighborhood. Good thing we tried to go early because we ended up walking for about 45 minutes through the nice Americanized neighborhood complete with tennis courts, golf course, and community hall. When we arrived at the Mbanda house, I felt like I was stepping into a Pleasanton home (Morgan clan will understand this). Huge, classy, beautiful, multiple stories, pool in the backyard, AND (exciting to see in Rwanda) refrigerator, microwave, pantry, island in the kitchen, and a beautiful Christmas tree in the corner adorned with lights, and ornaments – even the necessary 1st grade macaroni made and painted decorations. The Mbanda family was just delighting and delighted to meet Americans that could speak Kinyrwanda. Of course, it helps that I brought Michele with me. We enjoyed a delicious dinner and for dessert, African tea and home made tree-tomato (Japanese Plums) Italian ice.

All right, Christmas. On Christmas Eve, we had another talent show. Kevin and I opened with “Baby It’s Cold Outside”. One house recreated the last 15 minutes of the Charlie Brown Christmas movie from the Christmas speech through the dancing to the tree decorating and finally the Christmas carol at the end – all in about 5 minutes, of course. It was adorable. There were Christmas jokes and finally, Marta and Colleen read “Twas the Night Before Christmas” – Rwanda Style. After our very short talent show, we held a White Elephant gift exchange. I brought a blow up goose that squeaked, and won “A Day with the Frat Pack” which included dinner and a beer. The Frat Pack is Brandon, Austin, and Ryan, and they have quite the bro-mance going on, and they definitely earned their name.
So Christmas morning, people came over to our house way early and we started on our Christmas brunch (which we ate around 12:30). I helped cook initially, but as more people came, I just donated cooking supplies and found other things to do around the house. I cleaned some of the dishes that had started to collect from the week, and then I did my laundry. I finished just in time to wash up before eating. We had scrambled eggs with chicken and cheese and veggies in it, mac and cheese, fruit salad, and hash browns. Oh! And African tea (Hot Milk with Ginger), home made eggnog, and hot cocoa.
Morgan was my first call of the day, followed by Sean, and then my Parents. I did spend my day with the Frat Pack, but it was pretty mellow. Other people watched Love, Actually (which I watched 2 weeks ago) and Elf (which I also watched most of 2 weeks ago). I got to a point where I decided it was much easier Not to try and make December 25 feel like a holiday this year. There is no way to feel the same as when I’m at home, and it’s just too depressing to try. Plus, my time will go by much more quickly if I can just let everything run together.

Day after Christmas? I believe I posted the last blog =D. blimey, what did I do… (yes, still listening to Roald Dahl) yes! I sat at the interwebs for quite a while, trying to figure out how to load pictures – obviously didn’t work… but I think I have figured it out. When I post this tomorrow, I will try again. I went to lunch with Jen and Marta, and then came back and sat all day. Sunday was not much more exciting. I kept meaning to get to the market and buy buckets and cooking pots and things, but I’m sure you’re all aware of just how much self motivation I have with no real schedule to follow. Plus, it was still raining. Right – I haven’t mentioned that yet. As of now – at 8pm on Dec 28th, it has been raining for 5 days. I saw the sun for 3 hours on Christmas morning, 2 hours on the 26th in the afternoon, and another 2-3 yesterday around noon; because, even when it’s not raining, it is permanently cloudy.

Note – I have just discovered how to make this Word document read like a book.

This morning, our first third of PCVs were trucked off to their sites. Jen and I caught a ride into Kigali and I hit up one of the Indian markets for spices and basic foods. I now have 2 types of lentils, rice, noodles, tomato paste, some peanut butter and jelly, and mock Nutella. And Maggi cubes. As far as we understand, this is pretty much pure MSG, and it’s delicious. I’m hoping that Byumba has some stores for anything else I might need.

Ok, I swear I’m not trying to do this backwards, but I keep writing things and remembering other things I need to write about. Like my site! Ok, I don’t know a lot, but I’ll give you what I can. And I’ll try to stop saying OK so much… I am in the Gicumbi district in the north, just south of the capital, Byumba. I will live in a very small shopping strip area. Next to one of the stores, the owner has built a house. It’s pink. I do not have electricity, but I have purchased a gas tank with a thingy that sits on top and you can light like a stove. Yes, I know it has a name, no, I don’t remember what it is. I will also buy 2 small charcoal burners as well. My “kitchen”, toilet, and shower area are all in the backyard. Haven’t seen it yet, so I don’t exactly know what that means. I don’t know if there is a water spigot at the house, but if not, I can hire someone to deliver water to me.
Yesterday, I was delivered my bicycle, bike helmet, and motorcycle helmet to take to site with me. I know my school is only a few kilometers from my house, but I don’t know what the terrain is like, so I don’t know how often I will use the bike. There is a market town fairly nearby in the other direction. Apparently, this is where I will go if I need to charge things. I am hoping for very tiny things, like my phone, I will be able to charge at the school.
I am the closest Ed PCV to Kigali, but I expect I will go to Byumba more often.

Sidebar - I think the hair on my arms has bleached.

No, I don’t really have anything else to say about my site. I don’t know anything yet. I leave on Wednesday, and I don’t know when I will get back to internet again. I certainly won’t have Jen’s computer for any more of these novel sized blogs. Wednesday, December 30th, 2009 marks the first time I will ever truly live alone. I don’t really expect to sleep for at least the first week. And I don’t really know what I’m going to do about new years, but I might try and ignore it too.

- oh for the love of pete – british voice actors trying to sound like Iraqis – just tragic.

In any case, I will be procuring a PO box as soon as possible, and I will post my new address. For those of you who are interested, my phone number is posted on my facebook page. And again, if any of you are interested in the personal thoughts emails I send home, please either make a comment or message me on FB or email me and I will make sure to add you to the list.

Oh yeah – school starts on February 1. I am hoping that the teachers will be at school during January and I can help with their training. Otherwise, I will be writing a lot of letters, and practicing cooking a lot. I certainly will have time to settle in…

Saturday, December 26, 2009

another 10 days - only talking about 5 of them

Another 10 days. Some of my peers here keep a diary of our daily activities. This would probably be a good idea so that I have some base when I sit down to write these blogs. I had been taking notes for a while, but am swiftly running out of paper. I bought some more notebooks in Kigali, but I really hope my boxes get here soon.
Ps. It’s 7:30 the morning after Christmas, so my verb tenses probably won’t agree in most of my sentences.
Sidebar – Christmas joke – what does the English teacher call Santa’s helpers? Subordinate Clauses.

And now – a day by day break down. Because you ALL need to know Every detail. ha. Who knows, maybe this will all just be a book some day. Then I’ll be glad I recorded everything…

Thursday night I got to eat pizza for the first time in 3 months. Not phenomenal, but close enough to American pizza to be pretty darn good. Friday we went over to PC office in the morning and listened to a genocide survivor give his testimony. I also talked to our coordinators to find out more about my site, so I’ll get to that in a bit. I bummed around the office all afternoon, and I think we tried some local passion fruit wine when we got back to the housing place. We were staying in a kind of a motel run by nuns next to their convent, church, school, and apparently winery – but it felt like dorms because the public bathrooms were at the end of the hallway/compound thing (all open air, with shaded sidewalks. Like the oakbrook mall, or Newsome HS. ) On the up side, they had showers. With a knob for Hot water. And the toilets flushed. Shazam.
So Saturday we spent all morning getting ready for swear in. For some of us, this meant straightening hair and hunting down jewelry. For others (me included) this meant lying flopped 6 to a bed watching everyone else get ready and finally get up (with plenty of time) to throw on my dress and twist my hair back.


Swear in:
We (all 35 trainees, our teachers, our coordinators, and staff) all bussed over to the ambassador’s house and signed in on the guest book. Then we sat. (because waiting for 50 some odd people to sign in takes a while) We opened up with the student speakers: Michele and Kevin co-read a speech in Kinyarwanda, Julie-Ann read a speech in French, and Katie Basketball (there are 2 katies, both from nebraska, so yes, that’s what we call her. The other Katie I might have ever referenced is the one who live in my house. Oh yeah, and we roomed together in Kigali over this weekend. ) anyway, Katie Basketball read a speech in English. Then we all stood and repeated the same oath all government employees do – except I think you’re supposed to pick either “swear” or “affirm” and actually say “I --- do swear or affirm to uphold the constitution…”. I kinda felt like we should have had caps to throw or something though. Oh well. This was all followed by a very nice buffet and we mingled with all the RPCVs (returned PCV) who came. Why are there a bunch of RPCVs in Kigali you ask? (ok, well maybe you don’t, but a bunch of us did) Because they all work for the State Dept. or USAID or NGOs now. I definitely picked up some business cards for people to contact when I come in to town. We had our cake while watching traditional Rwandan dancing. The dance troupe they invited is composed mostly of “children from disadvantaged families” in an effort to expose them to the arts and more of the world by performing.
We took one final picture with Everybody before we left. It is technically on facebook. I know it’s far away and hard to see us in any detail, but I’ve got a copy of it and when I post any kind of pictures, I’ll zoom in a little.

Sunday a bunch of us just lazed around – laid out in the sun in the courtyard, read and played music on our speakers. A few of us had an adventure and learned that you’re not supposed to fit 5 people in a cab, but managed to get to an Ethiopian restaurant. Food there was pretty good – I’m still not a big fan of the sponge like bread they use for plates, but they have great seasoning and it was a nice change from what we were used to. We capped off our adventure by learning the bus system. Busses in Rwanda always have the same 2 end destinations and certain stops along the way. I say always because the destinations are painted onto the bus, so there’s no switching around or taking another route one day. The Rwandans are Extremely helpful regarding busses as well. When you get close to the bus depot in the center of the city, just start asking around with the name of where you want to go, and someone will point you to the right bus. The drivers Always tell you if you are getting on the right one and won’t let you ride around for hours only to discover that the bus you’re on isn’t even going in the right direction. (presumptuous fear – I could see it happening in America) And if you’re anywhere else in the city, just ask the nearest store owner or person who looks like they know the area well where the nearest bus station is. Busses are pretty cheap too. The only frustrating thing is that it will cost you more to ride in a taxi across town than a bus for 2 hours out of town.
After this adventure, I went to the Rwandan version of BigLots which sells mostly Chinese products. I bought a lot of my kitchen supplies (pitcher, sponges, Tupperware, etc) and a wide bucket and checked prices on various other items. I was really glad to get a head start on my shopping because Monday was going to be hectic.
We had a meeting Sunday night about ordering mattresses and organizing groups for shopping on Monday. Right as we were about to start, we went over to turn off the TV in the dining room (staff was perpetually watching the TV) only to see ourselves on the Rwandan evening news! Apparently those cameras at our swear in were news cameras and they got some great shots of us looking ridiculous as we all try and be as serious as possible taking our oath. They also recorded Michele’s speech and interviewed her after. This broadcast has had some positive and negative effects: 1 - everyone knows who we are, and are excited to talk to us now. 2 – this, in turn, means we are getting hailed on the street a lot more. 3 – people think we can All speak as well as Michele and try to start conversations. 4 – especially men because the only thing better than a muzungu wife is one who already speaks his language.

So Monday was nerve-wracking. We split into 2 groups and put all our personal belongings onto the busses (that we would ride home on) and anything we bought into trunks that were labeled for us on the back of 2 large trucks. Group 1 would go to T2000 (the biglots store) and group 2 would park near the upper-scale grocery / malls that were across the street from each other. We start around 9 and at 11:30 everyone would switch sites. So you had to know exactly what you wanted to get from each site before you went, or settle for buying something that you could have possibly found cheaper or a better quality at the other store, or buying it twice. But before I could even be concerned with the shopping crunch, I had to figure out how to stay an extra day because I was supposed to meet Erika’s parents, Chantal and Mbanda, for dinner, and the reception desk had been closed on Sunday and I don’t speak enough French to make myself understood. (or KR, obviously) ok, I know you can all do this – picture me walking back and forth between the dining hall and my room (including a flight of stairs) about 8 times between breakfast and when the reception opened at 8 and checking with my teacher every stop that they would help me ask for a room and half packing up in case I didn’t get to stay, and half not packing up determined to stay and asking about a hundred questions about the truck/trunk situation because until it shows up, you don’t ever know exactly how things will work. Good grief, my pulse is rising just writing about it.
The room thing worked out and Michele stayed with me for the day. The shopping worked out and I got everything I planned on and some new books – Kidnapped by RL Stevenson and The Europeans by Henry James. I’ve decided I really like authors between 1850 and 1950. I feel more inspired to write after reading their prose.

Ok, I’ll finish my story of dinner and all the Christmas celebrations another time. Probably on Monday.
AND i'll tell you all about my site.
i promise. =)


Until then:
Things in America that I have learned about in Africa:
- Britney Murphy is dead. Who let that happen?
- New artist names Kei$ha (or something ridiculous like that). She’s hilarious. And gorgeous. Char, go look up her video on Youtube right now. First line of the song is “wake up in the morning feeling like P Diddy”.
- It snowed EVERYWHERE. Except tampa. Still.

Final thoughts:
- I think Paul would have done well in the Peace Corps – Philipians 4:12-13 – I know both how to have a little, and I know how to have a lot. In any and all circumstances, I have learned the secret of being content – whether well-fed or hungry, whether in abundance or need. I can do all things through Him who gives me strength.

- but in your dreams, whatever they be, dream a little dream of me

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

attempt at wireless

We’re going to try and use the wireless interwebs. Maybe I can upload the blog and update Jen’s security at the same time.

Today is Wednesday, 16 December 2009. where has the time gone!! I’m a little happy that it doesn’t seem like 11 weeks. I mean, that’s an entire NCC trimester. Including finals. I have mailed 11 letters, 2 christmas letters, and 2 christmas cards. I have read close to 15 books (stopped counting), done 8 loads of laundry (by hand!), beaten Donkey Kong, drawn 3 real pictures and 2 crap ones. I have read 5 prophets and all the proverbs (and most of the psalms) twice. Tonight, Michelle and I will gather to pray for the third time. I know how to light a fire with charcoal and cook beans (I hope). At least I know I have rice down (thanks dad!).
On the flip side, due to the global postal system, I have only received one letter from home. I know the others are on their way, and I can’t WAIT to see them. =)

I am looking at a sheet of paper that says “congratulations! We recommend you to be a PC Rwanda volunteer”. Last Friday, we all trekked out to the basketball court on the field next door where our teachers had drawn a huge map of Rwanda and they placed us in our districts. I am in the north in Gicumbi with Jenn and Scott, and Michelle and Penny are just to the west. I’m working at a school with a very small population of secondary students.
Saturday, we took our final evaluation and Language proficiency exam. Passed. Exceptional on the Education and cross culture sections.
Monday we received more details about our housing. I know mine is pink. =) and it’s connected to a store front run by a man who works for World Vision. Hoping that means at least Some electricity. I know my bathroom, shower, and kitchen are all outside in the backyard. Ntakibazo – no problem. From Kigali, I take a bus to the nearest large town and then a motorcycle taxi to my house. I think my school is about 2.5 kilometers from my house, so I will either walk to ride my bike every day (depends on how hilly it is)

Tomorrow morning we go into Kigali and sort out bank accounts. Friday we walk around pre-pricing items and exploring Kigali. I might go with Michelle to meet some friends of hers. Saturday is swear in at the Ambassador’s house, and then Saturday night we are being thrown a party. By the USMC. Apparently, the PCVs hang out with the Marines all the time. Sunday and Monday are shopping days. PC have trunks ready for us and then they will truck all our stuff back to Nyanza with us on Tuesday. We will stay here through Christmas, and then PC will start driving us to sites on the 27th. Where we will sit for a month+ until school starts some time in February.
I fully intend to hire a language tutor (funded by PC) and re-learn French. And practice more drawing. Maybe start a garden? I might need some seeds for that… maybe write a book. Learn how to cook, and meet all my neighbors.

Tonight, we are having our Secret Santa gift exchange. PCVs and LCFs – should be fun. I think dinner might be something special too, since it’s our last night together. We also got our shirts today – black t-shirt, PC logo and flag on the sleeve, says Peace Corps Rwanda with a map on the front right chest with the colors of the Rwanda flag, and
I ♥ English
You ♥ English
He/She ♥ English
We ♥ English
You ♥ English
They ♥ English

On the back. Ps. ^ those are hearts if they don’t translate correctly.

Ok, I think I’m all caught up now. Going to sit outside the Cyber and see how long this takes to upload. Hopefully, this weekend will include pictures!! =)

Love you guys!

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

when you can see the finish line, you realize how much further you have to go.

Ok, first things first. Appendix to my gift list:

- Any kind of packet you can get from a restaurant – ketchup, seasonings, mayo, mustard (especially mustard!), hot sauce (yay taco bell!), salt, pepper, etc.
- nuts. Almonds, cashews, mixed nuts… for snacking (protein supplements)
- tuna packets – not cans, too heavy
- pretty much anything protein. Even just protein bars b/c that’s what I will be lacking here.
- NOTHING I HAVE TO PUT IN A MICROWAVE I know this sounds silly, but many people have gotten microwave popcorn or similar things. Not useful here.

As for the rest of life, sitting through the food and nutrition session today brought to mind a whole slough of issues I wish they would have addressed Way earlier, And given us more answers for.
For instance – even though we have a move in allowance, and can buy pretty much anything we need – where exactly does one find small charcoal stoves. Or gas cans. Or charcoal for that matter. And how are we going to transport all the things we get from Kigali to our sites. Further more, if we are going to Kigali for swearing in and only staying for 24 hours, how are we supposed to go shopping to Get all of our stuff (that we will then cart back to the training site for an other week).
We also talked about how to make gardens – and how to teach people to make gardens. And this included some kind of compost. Which made me realize, what the heck am I supposed to do with trash? I know some people burn theirs, but is someone going to show me how? Where do I dig the ditch? Do I burn it in my backyard, or do I take it somewhere? What about stuff that doesn’t burn, like tin cans? Who am I supposed to ask for things like this? Why don’t we cover This kind of stuff in language and cross culture class?

EVERYBODY GIVE YOU GARBAGE MAN A CHRISTMAS CARD! You are So lucky to have him!

Also, we have been given a booklet on “PCV roles” to present. There are 6 roles, and about 40-45 pages to explain each role. In groups, we have 10 minutes to present each role. Honest to pete. This was the one part of Peace Corps that I was worried about. I know how to teach, I can fend for myself with the food, even if it means eating a LOT of PBJ sandwiches. I kept asking the other PCVs how we were going to be expected to work on secondary projects and they promised me we would be trained. Well here it is – 10 minutes on 6 topics presented by amateurs.

Between the new food concerns, the shopping and transport issues, and now a highly disappointing training session – I’m actually reaching a ‘do I really want to do this?’ stage.
I know things will work out. They always do. And God has his hand on all the details of my life. But I’ve been concerned recently about how stuck in the moment I am – and seeing nothing but cliffs, moats, and metaphorical pitfalls does not encourage me to look up more often.

On an up note – family sent me Christmas pictures, which I leave open in a window the entire time I’m online. Yay snow. Yay lights and trees. Yay people I love. And some cadets I don’t know…

Language test on Sat. fortunately, we talked the coordinator into making us a study guide. Very helpful.
Running out of time and things to say.

Love you!
Write me!

Next on will be better, I promise. =)

Thursday, December 3, 2009

good gifts

just in case you ever get the urge to send me a package, here are somethings i could probably use at any given point in time:

- anything you can put in water
ie. hot chocolate, apple cider, powdered gatorade, TANG, ramen noodles, insta-meals (lipton noodles, etc), flavored oatmeal packets, easy-mac, etc...
- anything to write with
black, blue, red pens, pencils, mechanical pencils
- paper
loose leaf, spiral notebooks, plain (cheap) printer paper
- gum
orbit is my fav, but i'll take anything
- beef jerkey
- granola bars
- art supplies
crayons, colored pencils, stickers
**LETTERS**
- old magazines or newspapers
these can be anything from national geographic to time/newsweek to InStyle. they're nice to read for me, and I can use them in class.


i'm sure anything you think of will be fine too, and if there is anything specific I need, i will probably coordinate it through my family and let all y'all know.

love you guys!

Sunday, November 29, 2009

and then we slaughtered a goat.

technically, Ryan and Brandon killed the goats. maggie got pictures, and i took the video for ryan.
we were celebrating Tabaski (sp?) which is a Muslim tradition celebrating when Abraham didn't have to sacrifice Issac because God provided a lamb instead. there aren't many sheep in Rwanda, so we used a goat. some of the LCFs (and one of the drivers) helped direct how to go about skinning and cleaning, and most of the Mauritania girls were figuring out what to cook.
we had such a Great Time working together! talk about a bonding experience - making your own meal completely from start to finish. well, we didn't grow the vegetables, but we washed (twice), cut (only 1 finger!), and made stew (and frites / hashbrowns) with them. I helped hold one of the goats while it was being skinned, and found other jobs across the afternoon. I didn't see who hacked it to pieces, but I would assume the boys. Lindsay and Michelle then expertly carved out usable meat, and the Rwandans cleaned the intestines (which they are cooking up back at the house for lunch today). Marta and I helped cut small pieces for the brochettes - and someone had sent pulled pork barbecue sauce, which was delicious. Austin wrapped 2 of the legs in foil and let them slow roast, and they were amazingly tender (goat legs! tender! whoda thunk it). ribs and other large pieces were straight grilled with a garlic/butter sauce Austin made. finally, large chunks of meat (and stuff that was still on the bone) went into this stew (has an official name - don't remember it). Megan kept saying it looked like she had killed a small child for her witches brew - which is true. every time you took the lid off, it was so steamy inside, you couldn't see what was in the pan - except for the bones sticking out. and she kept stirring it with a large, long wooden paddle/spoon thing.
all of this was topped off with pineapple. delicious.

model school finished this week - i learned you can make spontaneous lesson plans out of any topic they don't know. especially animals. specifically - penguins. you write a paragraph on the board, you read it to them, you read it with them, you go over vocabulary, and you ask comprehension questions. awesome. ryan has one on camels which inspired the penguin lesson, but i was very excited to come up with one on my own.
so the next two weeks are back to language classes. who knows, i may learn to communicate yet...

read the Poisonwood Bible. SO DEPRESSING!!! maybe it's because i'm in africa. maybe it's because you want to smack half of the cast. beautifully written, intense truths that anyone who is trying to live on the dark continent can confirm, but depressing. i will probably read it again a few months in and start taking notes on quotes to share.
and i'm almost done with Fitzgerald. i like him a lot better in small doses. i don't mind his philosophy, and i can understand where he's coming from in short stories. still hate Gatsby (stupid symbolism)

finally, my exciting news of the week (and this is what I am truly thrilled with) I have made it all the way through world 1 on Donkey Kong Country. BY MY SELF!!! ok, i know this sounds totally irrelevant, but Casey and Kelly and CJ - who Always had to bail me out halfway through a level - will hopefully get this. I can't tell you how many vacations and how many summers I spent watching all my cousins progress through Nintendo games like they were watching television. and i always tried, and always died. or ruined their saved games because i ran out all their lives. but as i bounce through the jungle, i remembered EVERY extra banana spot, and where to jump, and that it was better to get the golden ostrich than the shark or the frog. and i'm in the middle of bouncing bonanza, and i am Psyched! all y'all better be smiling with me, because here, it's all about finding the small successes.

ok, i'm running up a bill here, and i'm not even taking the time to proofread or capitalize (obviously).

love you all!
write me!

Thursday, November 26, 2009

thanksgiving list

Original ideas: (in no particular order)
- Musicals - which combine my love of a good story with the language of music and produce a reminiscence rarely felt by anything else.
- lemon flavored clover grass - which apparently grows everywhere. =) (charlynn, i know you know what i'm talking about...)
- friends who write me - it keeps me from feeling completely isolated here
- dad's sermons on my ipod
- my roommates, whom i will miss dearly when i go to site.
- a language that provides me with the availability to speak in details, explain, classify, and mark myself as elite by vocabulary (that would be English)
- skin that doesn't hurt when it burns, and fades to a nice brown
- memories of previous holidays and the people i spent them with.
- family that is determined to be supportive - nuclear And extended!
- a cast iron stomach
- a boyfriend who is committed to protecting me and can get my dad to throw his hands up and say "wheeee!" for the first time. ever.
- the ability to let days run together so i'm never quite sure how long i've been here
(december already? seriously?)
- my pictures of snow
- for having a personal relationship with Christ, through which I can experience God's grace and blessings - especially peace of heart.


** 24 hours after i wrote this, my ipod wiped itself. so that knocks off 2 things at the very least. still have a lot to be thankful for. =)

Things I will forever be grateful for IN the US.
- running water
- a plethora of books
- reliable electricity
- juice
- clean water
- the availability of Fine Arts (except in CO, which doesn't have any)
- immediate availability of pretty much everything
- cream cheese (maggie got some smoked oysters that she gave to me, but it's not the same without the cream cheese...)
- exposure to multiple cultures in a small area
- people who speak English
- people who listen to the same music i do
- band-aids

we are making a huge feast tonight! i will share what i can type up in 15 minutes next time I get on. sorry - no more large blogs. can't risk sticking the jump drive between computers anymore.
hope y'all are eating great food for me! like chocolate pie!

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

dance with me tonight

Halloween was my last entry?
Does anyone have any idea what happened between now and then? I barely do… Currently – listening to Aida on the “recently added” mix on the ipod. Note to Charlynn: it’s not too bad.

Ok, so with half the crew in model school, and half the crew doing micro teaching, language classes were all mixed up. In the mornings I was partnered with Jen, who was my roommate in Philidelphia. We tried to ask our teachers about slang, but had a hard time explaining it. In the afternoons, I was paired with Michelle, my friend from Umuganda. Michelle is fun because she gets SO excited about everything. Even when we were still in the states, driving from Philly to JFK, the bus driver started sharing some sight-seeing info on the border of NJ/NY; she ran up to the front of the bus and conveyed everything through the microphone. She thought everything was just Facinating! And she has that energy that rubs off on you – when she’s excited, you want to be excited. I know I’m being repetitive, but #1 I’m tired, and #2 emphasis. Anyway, she learns the language faster than anyone else because she gets so excited about it. She hangs out with the kitchen staff and the LCFs and speaks as much Kinyarwanda as possible – all the time. I love being in class with her because we feed off each other’s energy and she gets excited for me when I understand things. I have been spending a little more time with her and speaking with the HCNs, but I can’t absorb it the way she does. I finally gave in and started cutting up my notebook for notecards I could flip through. Everything is organized by topic and part of speech. Now I just have to use them…

I finished Fury – didn’t hate it. Starting to run out of options among the team here though. I read “Emma’s War”, which is about the British Aid worker who was in the Sudan and married one of the warlords who was part of the civil war in the early 90’s. I also re-read Hitchiker’s Guide to the Galaxy and Harry Potter 7. I think the coup-de-tas this week was my first Chuck Palanik; Rant. I was excited about the F Scott Fitzgerald book, until I remembered that this was the guy who wrote the Great Gatsby. One of the worst books ever. Oh well, we’ll see how he does with short stories. (pretty sure this makes book 12 since landing in Rwanda)

Saturday (11-7) was an outing day. They went to see the rainforest in the southwest. I opted to save my money because, I hate to say it, Brookfield is an awesome zoo, and I’ve seen monkeys. I spent the day in Butare with Scott. I got to chill at a coffee shop, eat real food, and visit the National Rwanda University. It’s really a beautiful campus, with manicured gardens, a student union, a medical center, and each subject has its own building.

Later in the week I went on a site visit. Not MY site, mind you, but visiting a Health PCV. She lives in one of the smallest town possible, and still has running water and electricity. Her town doesn’t have internet, but that’s still more than reasonable. 9 of us went at the same time, but Megan and I were the only 2 to go to the same place. SO Glad. We bought bus tickets from here to Kigali, where we all split up. Megan and I had to get dropped off (via PC van) at a different bus depot in town and were given money for fare and the name of the bus. We started asking around, but the bus we needed wasn’t there yet. We found some steps to sit on in the shade (because it was very warm and we had backpacks) but we only got to sit for about 5 minutes before some Rwandan men came and started pulling us over to a taxi and trying to tell us that was going to our destination. Now, to their credit, it was going to the district – but I was not about to ride a strange, over crowded, over priced taxi-van that was only guaranteed to take us to the right district. We had enough language to say no, I want the Onatracom bus going to this city. Fortunately, the bus we wanted really did pull up about 5 minutes later (although, standing in the African sun, protecting your backpack for 5 minutes when you don’t know the end time is not really fun) and we asked about 10 people (the driver, a nun that got on the bus, the door guard who takes fare and other passengers and passerbyers) if this was really what we wanted. Between Megan’s French and my (again, extremely limited) KR, we decided to get on the bus. Even though it wasn’t leaving for another hour, where else were we going to go? Plus, we definitely got some of the best seats in the front. Ok, so think size of a coach bus, but accommodations of the El. (all you non-chicagoans will just have to imagine) Megan and I claimed window seats across the aisle from each other. My seat mates decided they needed more room on the aisle than I did next to the window (which opened by sliding horizontally and was open from where my butt hit the seat to just above my shoulder). Fortunately, there was about 2 inches of wall extending up past the back of my seat so I didn’t completely fall out the window – but this wall definitely had a corner, and my shoulder definitely had a bruise by the end of the trip. I did lose a pen out the window. I thought it was clipped to the notebook, but it bounced off.
Ok, so the bus ride was supposed to take 3 hours except as soon as we left the paved road, our rear windshield broke. I thought it shattered from how rocky the road was, but the bus driver and the 2 guys in the front (passengers) got out to look at it and it sounded like possibly a rock had hit it? 20 minutes later, they all come back in and the bus starts. 20 seconds later, the bus stops again and they all get out to talk to the locals who are now lined up on the edge of the street. There was kind of an older guy with a sketch pad, but he wasn’t police and they couldn’t do anything about the window to fix it or anything anyway, so I have NO idea what was going on. Every so often I looked over at Megan, eyes closed and listening to her ipod. I figured, if she wasn’t worried, I didn’t have to be either. Except that during all this my seat mates decided to invite another person on to our bench (this makes 4 now) and my shoulder was definitely out the window.
The other most frustrating thing about African public transportation is that they never tell you where you are. They figure, if you’re going there, you must know what it looks like. There are no announcements and no list as to how far down the line you are. They’re nice to us muzungus though and tell us when to get off, but I was really nervous – what if I was listening to my music and didn’t hear it? What if they didn’t really understand where I said I wanted to go? What if I was asleep and they didn’t bother to wake me? Again, thank goodness for megan. We finally arrived at ~7 and walked the 25 minutes into town in the dark with our host PCV.

I know I spent a lot of time just talking about the bus ride out there, but that was honestly the most intense part of the trip! What did I Do at site? Slept well for the first time since I got to Africa. Went to the market and bought ingredients for guacamole (in KR) which we ate with 4 meals. Watched like 10 episodes of Scrubs. Read about a third of Vanity Fair. Took naps. We did walk through the hospital, but that took up about 30 minutes.

I know this sounds like a pointless trip, but I was really glad I went. It was good to see that I can survive on the language I have now, even if it’s not phenomenal. I’m glad I got to experience the bus system with a partner the first time. We also learned how to make this really delicious meat sauce that is SO EASY. Very helpful.
I think the most important part of the trip for me is how I felt riding out of town. I know many of you were confused / hurt when I said a while ago that I didn’t feel gone yet – but keep in mind, I’m “gone” from most of you, most of the time. When I’m in FL, I’m not in Chicago. When I’m in CO, I’m not in FL. And I’m almost never in CA. so while I miss all y’all, I feel like I’m at college or at camp or something similar where not enough is different to matter. I left Chicago to pack in CO. I left CO for PA. I left PA with 36 other Americans and haven’t left their side since then. This dorm of Little America is great, but I don’t recognize it as some exotic or distant land yet. Except for the 3 days of my site visit. Leaving everyone behind really gave me a taste of how it will be when I go to my own site. I didn’t have roommates to talk to. There wasn’t a crowd of kids listening and dancing to music in the evening. There wasn’t anyone to vent to at the end of the day or to tag along with between classes. It was different. I finally felt like I was in the Peace Corps.

And then I remembered that I don’t like to sleep in a house alone. Oops.

Next life lesson – what it’s like to be a laundry woman from the turn of the century.
I have honest to goodness blisters and knuckles that are rubbed raw. Stupid jeans. And the sweaters. And the most frustrating part is that you never can quite rinse All the soap out. I think I’m the only person who likes when it rains after I do laundry. I figure – extra rinse. I definitely sunburned my back during the last episode though. All my roomies have begun to notice and tell me how bad it looks.

*News Flash*
Duct Tape does not fix everything. Like the ear hook on your headphones. Dammit. I dunno, Chris says she has superglue. Maybe that will actually hold the pieces together. These are the airplane earphones too – my real earphones from home only play out of one speaker now, which is a wiring malfunction. Also not duct tape fixable.

Model school.
I am not a fan of the idea of switching between classes and having to create a lesson for a group of students when you know Nothing about them. So I checked with two other teaching to for a team that would stick with the same class all week. At least then we can build lessons on each other and we know what our students have heard. This morning was pretty fluid. Pretty impromptu for some of us (me), but fluid. Avery taught formal v casual, introductions and requests. I taught formal titles, and did listening activities on formal v casual. Scott closed it out with “how to write a letter”. Tomorrow is “no chalkboard” day. I have no idea what I’m going to do. I’ll figure it out in the morning…
You know the phrase “those who can’t do, teach”? That especially applies to me. I can tell you how to do a perfect plie, and how your toes should be pointed – but I would fall on my face if I tried it myself. Pick a skill – I can correct it better than I can do it. This, unfortunately, applies to teaching as well. I can tell you how to make great lessons and keep the kids in line, but I forget half my own advice when it’s my turn on the stage. I didn’t get mad, and I didn’t yell, but I did whistle at them to get their attention. The first time, they were confused, the second time, they giggled. The third time, they laughed and kept talking.
The first time I whistled, I remembered that it’s taboo for girls to whistle. The second time, I remembered that they used whistles to trick fugitives to come out of hiding during the genocide. The third time, I wanted to tape my mouth shut. Oops. I guess it went ok though. Scott called out all the slackers to read in front of the class.

Ok, short blog this week. I’m falling asleep again and the power just started flickering. Happens from time to time. Sometimes it means we don’t have to pay for internet. =)

Love you all.
Comment on things! Let me know how life with you is!
And I will try and post pics around swearing in time in Dec.

Ps. heard Owl City playing in a store in Butare. How crazy is that!

Monday, November 9, 2009

other blogs

ok, one day i will find a gadget to make these easier to find.
until then, names a links.

maggie, roommate:
http://margeinrwanda.blogspot.com/

tressa:
http://tressawessa.blogspot.com/

avery:
http://newworldrwanda.blogspot.com

Amanda / Penny, roommate:
http://amandarwanda.blogspot.com

Jen, first roommate in Philly:
http://redtarainrwanda.blogspot.com/

moving right along

Heyo!

No, that’s not Kinyarwanda. I just wanted to say heyo. =)
This has actually been a pretty chill week. One group started Micro-Teaching, so a third of our classes were absent. Plus, they need the classrooms to teach in, so we had open afternoons.
One of the sessions we had together was on conflict resolution styles. A lady from PC Washington is working on a new program to train all PCVs in personal and group conflict resolution, and PCVs in post trauma countries more thoroughly in psycho-social causes of conflict that leads to violence and the cycles that people get trapped in, and how they work through to reconciliation. Yeah, I know that’s kind of a run on, but it all works together. Anyway, she is just creating the program, so she told us we were her guinea pigs for a first presentation and session as she designs her curriculum. She took us out to the courtyard, placed a chair in the middle that was “conflict”, and asked us to take a position towards it. I was a little surprised at some people’s reaction, but mostly, it was really interesting to see how scattered we were. Not only were people at different distances from the chair, but some had their backs turned, and Matt sat on the chair. I walked right in front of it, and put my hands in my pockets, because I have learned that conflict needs to be dealt with head on, but calmly and rationally.
The other major piece of the personal section was a “personal conflict style survey” (which I think I remember doing in my group communication class a ways back). It tested on 2 sets of responses – the “Calm”, when issues first arise, and the “Storm”, after the issues have been unresolved and have grown in intensity. The graph that accompanies the lists set the value of the relationship against the value of the issue.
In the Calm, my resolution style is a high collaborating, with a tied compromising and forcing. During the Storm, compromising takes a stronger lead over collaborating, and accommodating pulls above forcing. Which sounds good to me… (comments, rebuttal, anyone?) The only thing I didn’t particularly agree with in her discussion was negative connotations she applied to forcing. Both Bobby and I tried to voice the idea that you can be determined to share your point of view, and do it graciously and tactfully – she calls that manipulation. Whatever. Most of the time, what I really want is to be understood. You don’t have to agree with me, as long as you can see where I’m coming from…

We’ve also had a few sessions with Rwandans aimed at helping us understand the genocide and reconciliation since then. The following is the history of Rwanda as I understand it. (if you’re not that interested, skip to the *** part)
Please keep in mind that certain names and groups have not been too clearly explained to me, so if things don’t make sense – that’s how I understand it…

The Royal Era
There were 3 main members of the royal team; the king, the personal secretary (who was responsible for getting him crowned), and the queen mother. There were also 3 families (who intermarried) who rotated in the position of the crown. Beneath the royals were 3 chiefs: chief of land (farming), chief of pasture (herding), and chief of the army. The chief of the army was often called upon to settle disputes between the herders and the farmers. Beneath them was a complex hierarchy of sub-chiefs and regional directors. The government was decentralized here, which is unusual for the other plateau continent kingdoms. (The current government is Very central, but with hierarchy everywhere. Districts, regions, cities, even in schools – there is an order to be followed.)

Colonial Divisions
When the colonizers came, they noticed the difference and concluded that this style that was more similar to Europe indicated a higher level of thinking and required ethnic outlining. They decided that the leaders were descended from “Hammites” (yes, one of Noah’s sons) who was cursed. Now, colonizers had to choose certain people to educate and integrate into their culture. They carefully measured facial features and quantified any possible description, and determined that the taller, thinner, cattle herding people came from Ethiopia and were smarter, and the shorter, stouter, farmers came from Chad and were stronger. They chose the Tutsi sons of chiefs, who looked a little more like Europeans: tall, slender, longer noses, and slightly lighter skin. Anyway, they sent them to school in Butare, and when they graduated, they went to work for the Belgians as “assistants”. It is, in fact, these modes of “divide and rule” that help lead to conflict later on.
In 1933, they formalized identities based on ethnic labels as opposed to clan and region (which is where they stared). The taller men (with more than 10 cows) were designated Tutsi and the shorter farmers (with less than 10 cows) were designated Hutus. These labels were stamped on identity papers, and impacted whether or not you went to formal schools, and what kind of jobs you could get. The uber ridiculous part is that parents, children, siblings, any kind of relatives could be labeled with differing ethnicities. As these divisions solidified over the next generation, the monarchy pattern was weakened.

Major Colonial Malpractices
- Political Domination
The Belgians introduced “reforms” to reduce the number of Rwandan rulers. They reduced the number of sub-chiefs and slowly shifted power over major decisions to the colonizers. Also, ALL of the ruling positions left for the Rwandans were exclusive to Tutsis.
- Economic Exploitation
These jobs were called the Uburetwa. They were higher trained, and higher paid. There was, of course, the standard unfair taxation and confiscation and redistribution of land (and guess who benefited). I think the hardest piece that I have heard is the Akazi. Any infrastructure designed by the colonial powers was mandatory, unpaid labor, designated for the “stronger” Hutus. So roads, schools, churches, etc... was all slave labor.
- Social Repression
When these compulsory works were not completed, there was forced migration, beatings, and humiliation. Also, there was a historic relationship between the farmer and the cattle owner on renting cows for labor and milking and offspring and the use of the land for grazing called the Ubuhake (all very complicated, don’t really understand it) but this became more exploitative and started using colonial powers to support repression.

A Shift in the Wind
After WWII, the current king promised reforms and change, but they were all only half-fulfilled. He abolished Ubuhake, but didn’t create new laws to regulate the sharing of land. He abolished Uburetwa and Akazi, but the land belonging to the political leaders was not redistributed well. The beatings just shifted from the chiefs to the police.
In 1952, chiefs and sub-chiefs added councils and committees to help with making decisions, but the members were mostly Tutsi, and the councils held mostly consultative power. In the late 50’s, the councils were discussing adding Hutus to share power in the political arena, and some of the Hutu leaders were pushing for education for which would lead to social freedom in the future. Apparently they were pushing too strongly though, because the king rejected many of their requests as divisive.

Internal Divisions
Neither the Tutsis, nor the Hutus were a unified group. The older generations were more conservative, the progressive Democrats had studied in the Belgian schools, and, of course, there were always opportunists.
The northern Hutus were considered the “intellectuals”. A man named Gitarama, who had studied at seminary, created the “Hutu Manifesto” with the help of priests to state the rights and strength of the bahutu (the Hutu people). However, most of the bahutu were in the south, and rural teachers, workers, with small salaries.
And the “intellectuals” they were being oppressed by were not the majority of the batutsi, who were peasant cattle herders.
Most importantly, during this time the Tutsi in power were starting to push for independence from colonial rule. The Belgian government was not too thrilled with their pets trying to strike out on their own; they had educated them, reserved the nicest jobs for them, given them higher salaries, and now they wanted freedom.

Elections, and Early Violence
In 1959, we see the first political violence. There was a “revolution” by the Hutu leaders. Tutsi chiefs and sub-chiefs were killed, chased out, or demoted. This was also the first mass exodus of Tutsi and monarchists (which included some Hutu, and even the forest tribes of Twa / pigmies). This “revolution” was backed by the Belgian leaders in an attempt to regain control over the Tutsi rulers.
By the elections in 1960, there were 4 major political parties. The UNAR included Tutsi and Hutu and had traditional and progressive members. They wanted autonomy in 1960, and independence in 1962 with a democracy and constitutional monarchy. RADER was the moderate party with Tutsi and Hutu, who declared gratitude towards the colonial powers. They were willing to move more slowly with autonomy in 1964, and independence in 68. They also wanted a constitutional monarchy, but were most concerned with establishing the privatization of land. The MDR/PARMEHUTU were incredibly anti-monarch and wanted a republic government. They included intellectual goal and peasants goals in their platform; rejected inequality in salaries, and wanted land privatization as well. However, they claimed true independence would only occur when ALL Tutsi were out of power. Finally, the APROSOMA was the party of the Hutu leaders, and their line was “the party of the masses”. But they based themselves around the home of Giterama, regrouped the intellectuals in the south, and radicalized around the Hutus.
The PARMEHUTU won the elections, and were backed by the Belgians. This shifted all the power to the Hutu intellectuals very quickly. Refugee land was parceled out, Hutus sued Tutsi for “historic land rights”, structural counter-oppression, and bursts of violence still scattered around the country. As refugees tried to return between 1961 and 1966, not only were they attacked, but other Tutsi across the country were killed. It’s estimated that over 10,000 were killed during these years.

Ridiculous Republics
Under the newly independent government, the “Masses” were redefined as exclusively Hutu. The opportunists were not satisfied with state reforms, and were constantly fighting for more. In 1973, Habyarimana takes power, and promises “peace and stability”. He still employed a systematic exclusion of the Tutsi, but the major physical violence was stopped. Unfortunately, the exclusion included from the military, so the army was almost completely Hutu. During the world-wide economic crisis of the mid-80s, currency was devalued, population was still rising, and there was a natural land shortage. Unfortunately, the stress of one generation is passed down to the next generation, including who to blame.

Confusion of the 90s
At the end of the Cold War, a wave of democracy crossed Africa (I think. At least it crossed Rwanda…) People were critiquing the ruling party, and more parties were building for the elections in the following year. One of the major points of contention was all of the displaced Rwandans. Many of them wanted to come home, but the government protested there wasn’t enough room. They did work on improving relationships with neighboring countries so the refugees and displaced citizens could be more comfortable where they were, but this was not satisfactory to the refugees who were organizing outside the country. In October, the RPF attacked in an attempt to get back into the country. This did not help anti-Tutsi sentiments at all.
There were 17 political parties by 1991, and the country was shifting to a multi-party government system. They all exploited the ethnic factor, all appealed to Hutus, and almost all employed violence. In 1992 and 1993, there was a coalition government, and 2,000 more people were killed.

The Lynch Pin
When the Arusha Peace Accords were signed between the government and the RPF at the end of 1993, the building radical party threatened that this would be one of the final acts of the reigning president. In the first week of April, 1994, the president’s plane was shot down at 8 in the evening. By midnight, there were roadblocks, and people were being pulled out of their beds and their houses and killed. In many regions, Tutsi leaders were encouraged to gather together in “safe hiding places” that they were then slaughtered in. Churches and schools that housed fugitives were destroyed. The main radio station that had been broadcasting propaganda for months was now instructing Hutu men married to Tutsi women to kill their family, because the kids probably weren’t theirs anyway.
Rwandan culture is highly organized, and teaches obedience to leadership and conformity. For the last number of years, lessons were veiled propaganda messages as well. Students were separated in the classroom by ethnicity and daily denounced. Math examples said things like “if you have 10 Tutsis, and kill 2, how many are left?”.

Reconciliation
In the last 15 years, Rwanda has rebuilt from no money, no government, no infrastructure, to a country with national public service days, 9 years of mandatory education, medical and scientific universities, and a newly completed paved road system. They have governmental agencies that are designed to reeducate the populace on tolerance and reconciliation. People give conferences that gather city leaders or teachers together, and speak whenever they’re asked by any group, that teach the true history back to the Rwandan people and explain that how someone looks is not an accurate indicator of ethnicity, nor does ethnicity indicate intelligence or personality traits. They have changed the identity cards so that there is no ethnic label anywhere. There are local courts based in neighborhoods and districts called Gacaca where people can be accused of and bear witness to genocide atrocities. The panel of judges decides what level of crime was committed, which determines the length of their jail sentence. The organizers and instigators are brought through a higher court system and have much more serious consequences. I honestly don’t know if they have been sentenced to death or just life imprisonment or what because no one likes to talk about immediately after the genocide.
People are very good about keeping up the image of unity. I know most of the older generation still harbors resentments and prejudices, and they are probably passing some of them down to their children. But the children here are much more willing to believe teachers and government officials than their parents, so education makes a HUGE impact. I think it also helps that even though people don’t want to interact with or trust their neighbors, as time goes on and positive interactions occur, cognitive dissonance can affect how people feel as well. The best opportunity for this is definitely public service day – when you all work together to build a school or clean a road or anything, it’s difficult not to build camaraderie.

***
Moving on. =)
The town I’m staying in used to be the capital of Rwanda, and is where the royal headquarters were located. Nearby, a replica of the traditional hut the king lived in and some of his compound has been erected next to the “modern palace” that had been a gift from the Belgians. On the edge of the property is the gravesite of the last king and queen. On the opposing hills is an art museum. This is the highest spot in the district, and standing on the balcony, you can see for miles upon miles. All the art has been created post-genocide. Some of it is obviously an expression of pain and healing, but much is representative of daily life. I think my favorite part is the different mediums employed. There were paintings, drawings, sculptures, and embroidery scenes. One piece was drawn, accented with sand, colored beads (really tiny, not much bigger than sand), and I think painted in sections. Some of the sculptures employed mirrors, and there was a crane built with natural resources in the area: papyrus, eucalyptus leaves and branches, etc…

Farther south of us is the city of Butare. This is where the first universities and secondary schools were built, and even though it was built up by the colonizers, it’s still a very large city and the schools are running strong. On our way down there, we stopped at a very unique memorial center. Because this was the center of education, many of who used to be the Tutsi leaders (and now 3 generations of their families) lived in this area. Their Hutu friends directed them towards an empty building that was designed to be a school for hiding and safety. There was no food, no water, and probably 30,000 tried to cram into and around this school. They were left alone for 2 weeks, and when the Interhamwe (the Hutu army) came, they were too weak to put up any resistance. The Hutu then used the building as a base center to hunt down fugitives in the forests and hills surrounding it. Now, in the 5 buildings that would have been classrooms, over 50,000 bodies are laid out, preserved in lye, exactly as they were exhumed. I couldn’t tell how emaciated they were when they were attacked, and how much was deterioration from the mass graves. In some rooms, all they had were distinct, separate bones that weren’t attached to a skeleton. In one of the large hallway type buildings are shelves and shelves of personal affects – anything not valuable was left behind.
I wish we could ask our language trainers how they feel going through these places, as it is their history and their families that were involved, but one does not ask those things here. Every now and again, someone will say “oh, my parents/siblings/cousins were killed in the genocide”; but is it is a passing comment that is expected to passed by in the course of the conversation.

In training, our pedagogy classes are finished and 1/3 of the group has started micro-teaching (small lessons to volunteer students in the community). This means they are missing some language classes, but we will all rotate through it. Unfortunately, that means they feel vastly unprepared for the language evaluations we have been having. I think I’m somewhere between 60 and 70% of where they want us to be. We have started figuring out verb tenses along with sets of vocabulary, and things are getting very tricky. Although, I keep reminding myself that I’m trying to reach the same level of fluency of 3 years of HS French in 9 weeks, and I accept that it’s going to be frustrating.
Alternately, because the classrooms at the center are now filled with practice teachers, we have had a LOT of free time this week. Don’t ask me what I did with it, I don’t really remember… I’ve read almost every book in this house that I want to. I’m almost done with Salman Rushdie “Fury”, and I’m borrowing an F Scott Fitzgerald collection next. I ventured back into the market (which I have been terrified to do since the first group visit the day we got here) and helped my housemates buy things for their Halloween costumes. I sat. a lot. And enjoyed relaxing.

Medical training was fun this week. :ahem: “fun” , I should say… I have a glimpse into the world of diabetics and having to prick your own finger for blood tests; but I must say, the handy dandy spring loaded needles are much easier to use than the metal point I have to jab into myself. We also went back to 7th grade for a nice review of all the STDs and what they can look like. We also learned how to say all the “dirty words” in Kinyarwanda, and everyone giggled like a 12 year old boy.

The first care packages started to arrive! Lucky me, two of them were girls in my room. Loads of candy is always fun to parcel out. People have also gotten some really cute letters and cards from friends and family. Chris’s mom used an entire day’s newspaper to pack her box, so we now have sports articles and comics and things to amuse us by. I think it will also help to be able to use the articles as teaching tools later.
If you want to send me anything, get me your email address and I will set you up with the “Charissa Care Package Crew” who are collecting items to be sent together. =D

11 tips from other PCVs in Rwanda:
1 – Schools expect teachers to be in contact with their students. I mean, give them your number so they can call you at home if they have any questions, etc.
2 – A good way to get to know your students is doing a mid-term or end of term exam (since they’re on trimesters) where they get to talk to you for 15 minutes, but must do it in English. If you don’t ask questions, you aren’t pushing, and they will open up to you way more than you can anticipate
3 – Students expect teachers to be pretty open and to know a lot about their personal lives
4 – Evaluate while deciding how aggressive to be with your students. Try and discern between psychological behavioral outbursts and discipline behavioral issues.
5 – Teacher / Student relationships are not uncommon. Sometimes they are manipulative in one direction or the other, but when you have a Senior 5 class (Jr yr in HS) with ages varying from 15-36, it makes a little more sense. Many times, you will see relationships come to light after year end exams.
6 – The line between teacher and parent roles is not only blurred, but you are encouraged to be parental figures to your students. This is because of orphans, traumatized parents and grandparents, and the role of the school in building a new mindset for the country.
7 – you Will be asked to support students for their school fees.
8 – what you do Will be seen. Because secondary schools are often boarding schools, your students can live anywhere. If you go into the capital or anywhere away from your town, you never know who you will run in to. Especially because many of your students will be adults.
9 – Negotiate boundaries with your colleagues, professionally and personally. Find a way to share resources / help them develop their own.
10 – Dress nicely!
11 – Be friendly and social, interact with your colleagues. If you don’t spend any time with them, they will think you’re a terrible teacher and say so. If you engage with them, they think you’re amazing, no matter how bad your lessons are.

Umuganda –
Umuganda is the national service day on the last Saturday of every month. We all participated in our district and marched up the road to help build a school. The walls were already erected and had supports for the roof and windows, so we were working on the floors. The whole town. There was a giant hole about 20 yards from the building where they had dug up the dirt so it was loose and could be transported to the new building. One set of people stood on the pile of dirt and used shovels and hoes to fill our rice sacks, water jugs cut in half, buckets, baskets, and finally, someone found some wheelbarrows, which we hauled to the doorways and window openings where there were men inside who would dump the dirt and spread it out, filling holes from tree stumps and rocks and making an even, solid surface. Michelle and I picked a sack and filled it to the brim and hauled back and forth, non-stop for almost 2 hours. It took us a while to convince the diggers that we really did want more dirt in the sack, but once they figured it out, our shovelers loved us. They kept calling us “strong girls” and would wave us to the front of the crowd when they saw us coming back. The men inside the rooms were just flabbergasted (thanks sean, it’s a good word =) at how fast we made rounds, and just how much dirt we were bringing in.
At the end, when all the floors were as full as they could be of dirt (and it was starting to rain) we all gathered together to listen to a speech from the Mayor and vice-Mayor of Economics. Much of the speech was encouraging unity and a strong Rwanda, and that everyone that came together to work was building a better future and opportunity for their children. They even sang twice. (everyone, the whole crowd, led by the mayors) But the best part was the vice-mayor said “the foreigners are here and have joined us. They worked very hard this morning and are really a part of our community now, so when you see them on the street, don’t ask them for things! And look how strong their girls are! Maybe you can find some good wives; did you get their phone numbers?”
It was a good start to a GREAT day. I LOVED running around and working that hard and sweating and being strong. I have no coordination and no balance, so being athletic is out of the questions, but I really enjoy manual labor! After Umuganda, we all went back and a lot of us just collapsed, but I took a bucket bath and shaved my legs for the first time in 2 weeks (yes Charlynn, monkey legs). And I started typing this thing (I hope you guys realize how much time it takes just to tell y’all what I do with my time =). And then Scott came over to start cooking for our Halloween party! He was making Three-Ways. Apparently in Ohio, this is not dirty word, but a term for spaghetti, chili, and cheese. So almost all of the girls here in the Kitchen House got involved in some form or another. I helped Ashley cut/grate the Gouda cheese, and then helped our Rwandan cook Betty cut bell peppers while Ashley stirred them into the spice mixture. I HAD SO MUCH FUN!!! That was the most teamwork I have seen since I joined the PC and we put on Wicked and Chris got to play with the fire and it was just Awesome.
After we were all prepped, we gathered together the final pieces of our costumes. Bethel did my make-up, and I pulled off a very nice Gypsy. Chris was Quail-Man, Ashley was a Newsie, Katie was from the 80s, and we had 31 other awesome costumes. Austin was “a creeper”. Even our trainers got in on it – a lot of people were dressing up like other members of our crew. People started to gather at our house before the festivities got started, and some girls from another house put all the decorations together at the center. They folded paper cups and hand-decorated each one and filled them with candy for each place setting. Everyone was SO excited for the chili, but after 2 bites, people were sweating and blushing and Dying. Apparently chili powder in Rwanda is stronger than in the US and it was almost inedible. Thank goodness for the cheese! Scott felt just terrible; he was so looking forward to sharing this. He personally promised a lot of us better chili when we visit him at his site.
After dinner, we all grabbed our drinks (I, personally, had vodka and coke all night) and settled down for the talent show. Probably one of the funniest things I have even seen/been a part of. We had acts like “matt’s first hand-stand”, Janelle’s Halloween jokes, interpretive dance with headlamps, some Rwandan dancing – two of our girl language teachers opened beer bottles with their teeth! There is now a video of me performing an Ethiopian dance, I will send it home as soon as possible!! I also helped lead “Amazing Grace” in a round.
Apparently, in Rwanda, you need a permit for noise pollution / large gatherings to last past 10 PM. So the party moved back to my house where they set up speakers and we had a dance party for another 3 hours.
Best Halloween Ever. The only other one to come close was when we had our French foreign exchange student and we got to teach him about it and he got to be a terrible “Chicago Gangster”. Ya know, like Al Capone. =)

Ok, I think that’s all I can fit in for this week. Thanks for reading and commenting and writing back!
PS. I have added links to other Rwanda blogs on the side, so if you’re at all interested in some differing views, they could give you a more complete picture of life here.

Friday, October 23, 2009

down to business

So, my only real problem with waiting so long between blog posts is how much I have to remember to catch up on!

First off, thank you SO MUCH to everyone who has commented, written, responded, or otherwise made any contact with me. Your support has been instrumental in my survival here.

Our training center is just across the street from my house, which is very helpful for us, but frustrating because everybody wants to use our bathroom. After the first time the toilet got blocked up, I was able to convince the girls in the house to put their TP in a trash bucket. Most of the other PCTs have acquiesced to using the outhouse in the backyard.
We have all our classes and meals at the training center, which means we carry our chairs back and forth between the classrooms and the main room periodically. We have a nice courtyard in the middle with the classes and director offices encircling it. Our medical director travels all over the country because she is the Rwanda PCMO. (Peace Corp Medical Officer) We’re hoping that will mean that at some point she will stop at the post office in Kigali and bring us the mail…

Our schedule is set in large blocks of time with significant breaks in between. Breakfast at 7, a two hour block from 8-10, tea time for half an hour, a 90 minute block, then lunch for two and a half hours. Classes start again at 2:30 for an hour-fifteen, followed by a 15 minute break and then a final hour session. Oh yeah – dinner at 7. We alternate classes between language, tech (pedagogy), “safety and security”, medical, and culture training.

Language:
Kinyarwanda is a very complicated language to switch to from any Indo-European base. There are 16 noun classes that affect every prefix used in the sentence. There are multiple KR phrases that translate (or not, as the case may be) into a single English phrase, so we will often hear “you can say this or that – same thing”. Some things we want to learn how to say don’t exist – like son, daughter, or beautiful. You would say “my boy child” or “my girl child” and everything is degree of good. The dress you’re wearing is a good dress; the view from on top of this hill is a good view; you said that phrase ‘good’.

Language classes as the first block in the morning is tough because that’s 2 hours straight of pounding memorization. They are trying to teach us without using translation, so there is a lot of confusion as we start each new subject. We have 13 teachers, and they rotate the classes they teach almost every session. After the first week, they also switched up the classes to adjust for learning styles and speed. My pronunciation skill has placed me in a higher class, so we’ll see how that goes.

Tech (pedagogy):
Most of our sessions have had guest speakers and discuss the concepts of TEFL (Teaching English as a Foreign Language) and teaching in general. Next week, the first group starts their “micro-teaching” – small lessons before they go to model school. I signed up with the third group as they only get 2 weeks of model school, and as I already have that year under my belt, I thought it might be better to let the non-teachers fill up the other groups.
Our first speakers were some volunteer teachers from World Teach International (I think?) and they have been here for about a year. It sounded like they didn’t have as much training as we are getting, but it was helpful to hear from other Americans who have been living in the area for a while. We also had some other PCVs talk to us, but they are technically health volunteers, so their experience will be different from ours as well. They each had different school experiences to share and had to balance this ‘extra’ teaching role with their health responsibilities. They came back during our cultural training session to help us be aware of standards and expectations they had come across that they felt we would be unaware of otherwise. (will discuss more in cultural topic)
We also heard form a current Rwandan university student, Jean Batiste. His education, like many others older than 10, was interrupted for a time because of the genocide. He is currently teaching secondary school and in university working towards his Bachelors. Rwanda government provided free education up through grade 6 in French until this year. The school year starting in 2010 will cover grades 1-9 as “basic education” which means there is no fee for classes, but materials, uniforms, and lunches still weigh heavily on many families. Also, all the classes will be taught in English. The government wants teachers to be proficient by 2012, and almost everyone we come across wants us to help teach them English so they can be progressive as well.

We have also focused a lot on gender equality issues. Even though 60% of the Parliament here is female, education is still vastly underrated for women. Part of the issue is that not only does a family have to pay for secondary education, but they lose an employee around the house. Within the classroom, girls are second-class citizens. They are not called on, and when they do try to speak, the boys ignore them and hold their own conversations. Ya’ll know I set the feminism movement back about 50 years, but there is something to be said for human equality. Our main plan is to inject some confidence into the girls and teach respect in the classroom.

Then we heard from Ken Franklin, a VSO (Voluntary Service Overseas – UK/Netherlands/other western Euro countries version of PC) who had been here for 3 years. He was very engaging, and shared some language stories we could all relate to; like when he thought he was asking for bread (umugati) , but was in fact asking for eight (umunani), loudly, for about 10 minutes. =) He gave us a great interactive lesson on how to dig up resources when there didn’t appear to be any around – and how to share that with the teachers in our schools. Also, how to slowly integrate learner centered lessons and group activities into our classrooms. Because of minimal resources and tradition, 99% of All classes are taught where the teacher either dictates a lesson to be copied, or writes it on the blackboard to be copied. And that’s it.

Following that very refreshing presentation, we helped John Simpson, who is on the British Council for REAP (Rwandan English Action Program), as a “brain-trust” to help him create some action plans for exposing the teachers to more English. They will have seminars and conferences during their large break (November-December) but will need to practice and learn more across the year as well if they are to reach the proficiency goal of 2012. Many of us discussed including English in their staff meetings, during meals at school, during content-area meetings (to focus on content language) and how we as PCVs could contribute by going over lesson plans with the teachers, observing lessons, and facilitating English clubs during the week.

Safety and Security:

We don’t really have a lot of these sessions – I think there’s only maybe one or two more during training. The one we had was about how we could be responsible for our possessions and not flashing around our money and what we have. I have a few great photos from a skit I was dragged into about ‘the foolish PCV’ out on the town. We stayed out too late, drank too much, and I brought all my valuables with me to play with. And I went back alone when I had left my phone in the bar… I don’t think our language teachers have had that much fun so far in training. And Oh the Drama! I was pretty much awesome. =)

That’s all.

Medical:
Well here’s the fun part. It’s definitely helpful to go over policies and procedures of what to do if you get sick or injured (or pregnant apparently) and who we can contact, etc. They do like to scare us a little about eating Anything, because it could be contaminated somehow. But the great part is the 3 or 4 extra shots we get to have over the course of our work. Rabies shots, flu shots, possible boosters for other stuffs.
Our med kits are pretty comprehensive: (I will refer to thing either by their commonly known brand name or use description – please note that most of these are NOT brand name) (which is fine)
- Tylenol
- Advil
- Triple antibiotic ointment
- Throat lozenges – two kinds – Sucrets!
- Caladryl cream / anti-itch cream
- Imodium pills
- Eye drops
- Rehydration salts
- Iodine water purification tablets
- Hydrocortisone cream
- Antacid
- Antihistamines
- Sinus decongestant
- Pepto-Bismol tablets
- Anti-fungal cream
- Antiseptic fluid
- Bleach solution to help purify water
- Medical tape
- Bandaids
- Butterfly closures
- Floss
- Ace bandage
- Gauze pads
- Rubber gloves
- Insect repellent
- Chapstick
- Safety whistle
- Bandage scissors
- Sunscreen
- Splinter tweezers
- Disposable thermometers
And most importantly -

- Condoms
Many kits have “Black Ice” brand. They’re made in Malaysia.
Just in cases…


Culture Training:
Things to be aware of in Rwanda –
- you must greet Everyone (especially if you have ever met them before), but you don’t have to say please
- and this isn’t a passing hello. Rwandans really care about conversation and showing that the person they are talking to is important to them. Be prepared to share your news and be sure to ask for theirs.
- no naked feet!
- Sit properly please. No lounging or sprawling or tucking your feet underneath you (Indian style) OR sitting on the ground.
- Smoking is to be confined to designated areas
- Stand when you are addressing a group
- Don’t smell the food
- No shoes in the sitting room
- In fact, nothing really personal in the sitting room
- No emotion in public (ie. crying)
- No eating in public / while moving
- Accept / offer some kind of refreshment when visiting / hosting
- Yawning – hungry
- Walk your visitors out the gate and down the road a bit.

All reasonable things, really. Rwanda is a very conservative, reserved culture. They can be very passionate, but there is a time and a place for everything here.

Other news:
We learned to do laundry in a bucket. Almost as fun as bathing from a bucket. If your hands are raw when you’re done, you’ve done it right. =) mine hurt from wringing by the time I finished. I’m interested to see how washing towels goes… Our kitchen staff were nice enough to wash our sheets for us though.

Middle of last week we met with the local authorities from our town. There are 3 mayors for our district: a head mayor, a jr mayor of economics/finance, and another jr mayor of civics/social issues. The head mayor was in Kigali, and the money mayor had taken time off for his wedding, so the social mayor came in from maternity leave (1 month!) to meet us. The chief of police and the head of migration also came. In Rwanda, meetings have a very different structure than America. Because greetings are so important, everyone needs to introduce themselves and share about what their role is. Our director introduced us and explained what Peace Corps was and why we were there, in French; introduced all the staff; then asked us PCVs to introduce ourselves. Most of us tried to do it in Kinyarwanda, a few did in French, and a few acknowledged that they weren’t ready and spoke in English still. Then the migration head and the police chief introduced themselves and welcomed us and said if we needed anything we were to avail ourselves of their service. Kate read a speech that she had shown me drafts of and I got to help edit – we needed one of our teachers to translate it, but I think the authorities really appreciated the effort that was shown.
Many meetings in Rwanda take hours because of greetings, introductions, and strict procedure, but I like a place with a sense of propriety and order.

Finally, we all met our “resource families” this week. These are like host families, only we don’t live with them. We had a ceremony where a representative from each family came to meet us at our school and then we all walked back to our respective houses. Some people have to walk 3-5 kilometers (those are the farthest away though). I didn’t measure it, but my family is about a 10-15 minute walk, so maybe a mile away, but that also includes uphill and through yards. My resource mom, Uwamwiza, teaches at the local elementary school, and specified in Social Studies. My resource dad, Gatabazi, is (I think) a factory worker who makes office furniture. They have 4 kids, Rusi (Lucy) 8, Fille 6 (boy), Shukuru 4 (boy), and Zipora 2 (girl). They also have 3 other girl staying with them, who I believe are genocide orphans. Marina is in secondary school, and teaches at the primary school with Uwamwiza. We are supposed to spend at least 4 hours a week with them, and so far I have seen them twice (totaling maybe 6 hours). Fortunately, our directors have scheduled time for visits into our schedules, and our weekends are usually free.

AHHH!! So much going on! So next time, I will try and tell you about our visit to the historical royal site and the art museum, and our visit to Butare (Huye) and the memorial center there. Thanks for reading!

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

3 days - 1 post


10 / 08-09 / 09
Muraho!
Hello from Rwanda!  I must say the trip over here had its ups and downs.  We flew on a 757 from JFK to Brussels and I did not sleep because the timing was all crazy.  Fortunately, the flight from Brussels to Kigali was bigger, and we were all seated near each other.
We landed to a very excited welcoming committee with posters and hugs and two busses for us and a truck for the luggage.  We drove through a dark night looking out the windows lit by thousands of tiny lights on the hillside.  We were housed at the Centre de St Francois Assisi.  A convent.  =)  Our first dinner was delicious.  We had a buffet of some kind of lentil soup, meat, green beans, beans, and a Rwandan passion fruit that reminds me of fig with a solid shell.
I crashed early, but we All slept until about 3:45 as our time clocks were unadjusted.  Most of us decided to give in and get around 6:30 and headed to breakfast.  They had GREAT coffee And tea, and a nice simple meal of bread and butter, scrambled eggs and onions. 
We all headed to the Peace Corps headquarters on our busses to meet our country director.  We received more shots, filled out immigration forms, and had our first opportunity to get online!  The American Embassy provided us with simosas, sandwiches, and drinks across the day. Many people went out to exchange money and buy phones, many more of us went back for an afternoon nap.  In the evening, we went to the CD’s house for a reception to meet the Health Volunteers that were already in the country.  Many of my fellow PCT’s started picking up on the language right away.  I am having a little more difficult time without seeing the words written down.  We were all excited to be eating mini pizzas, pigs in a blanket, quiche, and more simosas! 


10 / 10 / 09
This morning we visited the Kigali Genocide memorial.  There are many genocide memorials across Rwanda, but this is the largest and most visited site.  They have three sections to the grounds.  There are many mass graves where people can bring remains of family members they have found for a proper burial.  We started here and lay a bouquet and individual flowers in remembrance.  The second section was the history of their genocide, and education on other genocides around the world.  I really appreciated that they integrated international atrocities to help drive home the idea of “Never Again – Anywhere”.  The third section was a picture gallery of victims and personal stories of children who had been slain.  This place affected many volunteers and really made it a personal connection for them.
We went back to the PC headquarters for a debriefing afterwards.  We discussed the current Rwandan process of reconciliation.  There are levels of courts and justice that start with communities and grass roots trials.  Depending on the level of violence committed, the accused may move up in the court system and earn harsher consequences.  They start here to give the victims a sense of involvement in the justice and an opportunity for reconciliation within the community.  Because of the history, many people were displaced before the incidents of 1994, and many people have been displaced because of those incidents.  The current population is a blend of survivors, committers, and people who weren’t involved at all.  The President of Rwanda has called all citizens to renounce vengeance and strive for coexistence – to live in the understanding that “we are all Rwandan”. 
We were also encouraged not to be the first person to bring up the history to any nationals.  Rwanda has always been a reserved people, who will be friendly, but open up very slowly as you earn their trust.  It is not appropriate to ask if people are Hutu or Tutsi as the labels have been eliminated from any official process in country.  If you find out one is Tutsi or Hutu, you cannot assume that they are survivor or perpetrator.  Many people will want to share their stories, but we are not to investigate.
In the afternoon, a few girls went back into town and I finally got my phone!  It costs 180francs per minute to call from here to the US – which equates to just about $3.  But, it doesn’t use any minutes to receive calls.  =D   We all stopped at a cute café and I ordered Hot Cocoa.  I don’t think I’ve had cocoa in a long time.  This was also delicious.  I was also able to pick up a small bag so I can have a place to carry around phone, camera, ID, books, writing utensils, etc. because I often need all these things going fro one meeting place to another. 
Saturday evening was grand because we took the ipod and speakers over to Avery’s room and had a little party.  Jen, Bobby, Kevin, and Ian all came over and we played Indian poker betting candy, and invaluables like “the twinkle in Kevin’s eye”.

10 / 11 / 09
I was very appreciative to have Dad’s James sermon series from when he was at Edwards on my ipod.  I had my own church service in my bed, and may expand it next weekend (depending if anyone in the house is interested).  This morning we all packed up and drove 2 hours south to our training site.  I was able to take many pictures of the beautiful countryside on the journey.  Chris counted 27 “mazungu”s - which is the word for “foreigner” but more often ‘white man’ - called out at us, mostly by waving children. 
The neighborhood was highly intrigued as we pulled in with our vehicles and luggage.  We divided into 4 houses which are labeled by tasks: the Laundry house is the biggest, and farthest away from the center of town, the Language house is the smallest (oddly), the Tech house, and my house; the Kitchen house.  So far, all the meals have been here, but they are talking about having more meals at our school.  The children that gathered to watch us leave highly enjoyed Nicole’s knee-wiggle dance she learned as a camp councilor. 
When we got to our house, our rooming assignments were on the doors and we unloaded our luggage.  We have 8 girls, 2 boys, 2 female language trainers, 1 male language trainer, and 1 male driver in our house.  We have two bathrooms where you pour water from a bucket to flush the toilet, and use “jerry-cans” (?) to hold the “clean” water for bucket bathing and washing hands.  All the food is prepared in the backyard behind the avocado tree.  Our first afternoon here we got a dancing lesson, which was great because it prepared us for our evening!  We all had lunch and then explored the town center and open-air market. Sunday is definitely the best day to go because it is the least crowded.  Maggie and I found the internet café, but the connections are slow, and sometimes sketchy. 
In the evening, we gathered at our Technical Director’s house for a Welcome reception, and were treated with a traditional song and dance with costumes and props.  They had a sound system and played many of the American songs they enjoyed as well.  I was able to see the notebooks with the agendas for our training and I am excited to have a solid schedule ahead of us.  Training starts Tuesday, and we’re all ready to go!  =)

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

additional mailing info

Charissa Knighton
Peace Corps Trainee
P.O. Box 5657
Kigali, Rwanda


* Write "Par Avion" and "Air Mail" on envelopes and boxes. Letters and packages mailed by air from the U.S. take about two to six weeks to arrive.

* Number letters and packages, if sending more than one, for tracking purposes.

* Mail is less likely to be opened/stolen if you write the address in red ink. This is also true if it appears to contain religious material. So throw a "Sister" in front of my name, draw a couple crosses, or write a favorite Bible verse.

* Tape up packages, including the corners, so they can endure the trip. If you have stickers from church or from things you've donated to (St. Jude, Humane Society, etc.), put the stickers on the edges of the boxes that are taped shut - under the clear tape - so you can easily see if it's been cut open; this deters people from doing it, i.e. minimizes theft. You can also do this with the inside flaps of the boxes and with letters.

* Flat mail envelopes are better than boxes. Put everything in a baggie before putting it in the envelope. Boxes are welcome, but they increase the cost of transport and the risk of theft. I also have to pay a small fee when picking up packages.

* If you insure anything always say it's miscellaneous, and be general with customs declarations. Don't claim expensive contents.


thanks!

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